How to build a bridge

Two Brothers
by Author Unknown

Once upon a time two brothers, who lived on adjoining farms, fell into conflict. It was the first serious rift in 40 years of farming side by side, sharing machinery, and trading labor and goods as needed without a conflict. Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with a small misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference, and finally it exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks of silence.

One morning there was a knock on John's door. He opened it to find a man with a carpenter's tool box. "I'm looking for a few days' work" he said. "Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here and there I could help with? Could I help you?" "Yes," said the older brother. "I do have a job for you."

"Look across the creek at that farm. That's my neighbor; in fact, it's my younger brother. Last week there was a meadow between us and he took his bulldozer to the river levee and now there is a creek between us. Well, he may have done this to spite me, but I'll do him one better."
"See that pile of lumber by the barn? I want you to build me a fence --an 8-foot fence -- so I won't need to see his place or his face anymore."

The carpenter said, "I think I understand the situation. Show me the nails and the post-hole digger and I'll be able to do a job that pleases you."

The older brother had to go to town, so he helped the carpenter get the materials ready and then he was off for the day. The carpenter worked hard all that day measuring, sawing, nailing. About sunset when the farmer returned, the carpenter had just finished his job.

The farmer's eyes opened wide, his jaw dropped. There was no fence there at all. It was a bridge -- a bridge stretching from one side of the creek to the other! A fine piece of work, handrails and all -- and the neighbor, his younger brother, was coming toward them, his hand outstretched. "You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said and done." The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then they met in the middle, taking each other's hand.

They turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox onto his shoulder. "No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other projects for you," said the older brother. "I'd love to stay on," the carpenter said, but I have many more bridges to build.


Food for Thought:Do you have any bridges that you need to build?


P.S. This blog is about success and prosperity but if you don't build bridges you will never succeed.


To your success,
Stacy O'Quinn
888-572-8842

Destiny and the Power of Belief!

Destiny
by Author Unknown


During a momentous battle, a Japanese general decided to attack even though his army was greatly outnumbered. He was confident they would win, but his men were filled with doubt.
On the way to the battle, they stopped at a religious shrine. After praying with the men, the general took out a coin and said, "I shall now toss this coin. If it is heads, we shall win. If it is tails we shall lose."


"Destiny will now reveal itself."
He threw the coin into the air and all watched intently as it landed. It was heads. The soldiers were so overjoyed and filled with confidence that they vigorously attacked the enemy and were victorious.


After the battle. a lieutenant remarked to the general, "No one can change destiny."
"Quite right," the general replied as he showed the lieutenant the coin, which had heads on both sides.



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Stacy O'Quinn
888-572-8842

Cindy saved over 1,800 dollars on her Coastal travel membership!

We just got this email in over at DFILive.com.

We wanted to forward this over to you. Cindy, recently saved a ton of money using her Coastal Membership. Read what she had to say...


Hi, This is Cindy from Ca.
My husband is very leery about everything. He could not understand how people could save so much money on a vacation. We finally bought the Premier membership, after about 6 months.

This August we went to Kona Hawaii, one of my dreams. We stayed at Royal Kona Resort. It was absolutely beautiful. We got an Ocean Front Room that was upgraded, from a regular standard room because of the Coastal Vacations membership, we could hear the waves outside our room we watched the sunsets every night from the patio outside our room, and they were spectacular. We stayed for 7 days. The normal price for this room was $450.00 a night we got the room for $189.00 per night taxes and everything included. That is a $1,825.00 savings in just the room not to mention the savings we got on Food, and Beverages, and activities, we went on a Deep Sea fishing trip, a Luau, and a Dinner cruise, all up to 50% savings.

When my Husband saw the savings that we made, he was amazed and he is telling all of his clients about it and we upgraded to the Platinum membership so that we could travel worldwide and save even more.

Thanks Coastal
Cindy

Way to start living your dreams Cindy! If you are not already a Coastal member saving thousands of dollars on your travel, then give your Director a call and get your membership ordered NOW!

Cindy's Director, earned $3,200 when she purchased her Premier membership and then earned another $7,000 when she purchased her Platinum upgrade when returning from vacation. Could you just imagine working from home part time and earning $3,200 when a client purchased a Premier membership from you. Then have them use the product, return home, and love it so much they decide to upgrade to the Platinum membership?! Then you would earn another $7,000 for doing nothing more than answering the phone and getting their payment information. Think about it, what would an extra $7,000 do for you and your family?

If you want to make money like Cindy's Director, then get your travel memberhip ordered today, complete your training, and get registered for our massive training weekend coming up in Atlanta GA. Click here >> www.DFIPromo.com. (limited space available in the room we reserved)


Freedom is a Decision,
DFILive.com

P.S. If you already have your Coastal membership and are saving money on your vacations then send us a testimony so that we can feature you in a future email.

DFI Event, in conjuction with First Steps to Success!

DFI, sent out this email this weekend. That call was one of the most exciting things I have had a chance to be a part of. Listen to it entirely and make sure you have a pen and paper handy.

Oh WOW! I hope you did not miss this call today. Here is the link for you to send to your team members and data base! This is amazing I can't believe it's happening.

http://www.byoaudio.com/play/WgJckD1s

2008 is the year of new beginnings and it's shaping up to be just that. I guess HE's never wrong. And the new marketing features mentioned on that call oh man. Make sure you listen to it
completely!

See YOU THERE
DFILIVE.com


P.S. Our email got bogged down with so many people registering. Get signed up before it sales out!
http://www.dfipromo.com/


Stacy O'Quinn,
888-572-8842

What Kind of Budget Planner are YOU?

I found this article at http://www.personalfinancebudget.com/ How can you create or maintain a 6 figure income if you don't budget effectively. Better question, how are you going to grow it once you get it?

What Kind of Budget Planner are You?

There are a few different types of planners when it comes to managing budgets. The invisible planner neglects to track, manage, or take the time to update the budget. This planner seems to think if you create a budget it will take care of finances for you. All by itself. The passive planner takes a look at the budget on occasion but, really doesn't bother to take action when the figures don't add up? You might be a passive planner if you think that your budget will fix itself. Gee, these are two really great budgets, where do I get one? The efficient planner seeks to keep the budget alive and well. This planner has a realistic view of budgeting. So how do you become the efficient budget planner?

Set realistic expectations for yourself. We all want to be efficient budget planners. However, sometimes we make it hard on ourselves to achieve efficient budgeting. Many people set unrealistic budgeting goals and set themselves up for defeat from the start. Being more realistic with budgeting methods and figures can be easier and prove to be more efficient. If you're an invisible or passive budgeting planner, seek out the most efficient budgeting tools that meet your needs. The easier you make it on yourself, the more likely you are to follow through with budgeting tasks like budget tracking, updating, and maintaining.

Set realistic amounts for budget expenses. If you traditionally spend $500 on food each month, don't try to make your budget balance by decreasing the amount to $300. That is of course unless, you intend to actively use some money saving strategies to meet that goal. If $300 is a realistic goal, then go for it by all means. Follow this concept with all your expenses. Set realistic goals based on past spending. Then, if income and expenses don't balance, you can reduce spending in categories that you can (and will) most realistically make an effort to reduce.

Set realistic goals. If you have a huge debt payment, you're likely not to have the funds for savings until you eliminate debt. Plan to manage and eliminate debt first, then apply those freed up funds to savings and investment goals. Planning your goals to be achieved in a logical, realistic, time period and order will increase your chances of success at overall budget planning. Be sure to designate short and long term goals accordingly.

Budgeting is all about being real. Getting a real grasp on your finances. Being true to yourself and your financial needs is essential to your budget planning success. Don't plan a high finance budget on a moderate finance income. Be real with yourself. Everyone is different and has different financial goals and needs. Decide what you need to survive and be happy. What are you willing to realistically give up, or cut to the minimum, to make your budget plan work? Don't expect yourself to make major lifestyle and personality changes to suit your budget plan. Especially, if you've tried this in the past and failed. Instead, when planning your budget, create a realistic plan that suits your individual needs and personality. You'll be more likely to stick to it and succeed at achieving your financial goals.


If you are reaching for more...
Stacy O'Quinn
888-572-8842

A Letter to DFILive.com

A Letter to DFILive.com members!

This has NEVER happened before. There are so many things going on right now in DFI we are blessed to be where we are. Are you having more success then you’ve ever had before? Are you still in the beginning and looking for that success?

What is success for you? Are you able to manage where you are right now with your new opportunity with DFI? Do you want to know how other people are becoming more and more successful? Or do you want to be in a better position to help your newest associates succeed like you have?

For the First time ever we are going to have a Training Call Saturday afternoon to discuss some specific strategies you have never heard in your Coastal Vacation’s Business before. Invite all your Team members, Clients or anyone you know in Coastal Vacations. It is open to everyone regardless of their background as long as they have a desire to succeed in their business!


5pm EST/4pm CST/3pm MST/2pm PST on the Business Overview Line
212-990-8000 Pin 1989#


- You will learn about 2008 as the year of new beginnings…
- You will hear specific strategy to maximize where you are at right now…
- You will get specific details to improve your current results with DFI
- Learn step by step what you need to do moving forward in 2008
- Learn specific detail to help more people succeed on your team
- Learn how to have more fun then you ever thought possible
- Be able to minimize your Stress and increase your Freedom


This is an open call to anyone who could benefit from it. Anyone who is looking to help others, create a higher level of success, achieve more freedom and ROCK 2008 the year of new beginnings.


DO NOT BE LATE!
DFILive.com


P.S. You have to make a decision for 2008, ARE YOU IN OR OUT?



Stacy O'Quinn
888-572-8842

Thanks Jodi Stott, Kimber King and Kathy Humpherys

I just got this video from Kimber King, Jodi Stott had made if from the last "Building a Dynasty" event with Dani Johnson. While it was a powerful event, it was also fun and entertaining. Jodi Stott and Kimber King are both on Kathy Humpherys's team in a different organization. But here's the deal, these ladies are amazing leaders and mentor's. If you happen to currently be working with this team they have genuine hearts and if you follow them step by step you can not help but to succeed.

IF you get the chance to talk to one of them for just a few moments consider yourself BLESSED. Many people would be grateful for just a few minutes of their time.

Thanks for the memories guys, Jodi and Kimber... Have you found Brittney yet?

The ending with TOM CHALLAN is too funny! TOM, you inspired this post!!!

http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=46161d3ac56417ca394589&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url




Tom Challan is an amazing person and awesome leader as well. Talk about a success story! If you ever have the chance to work with him, consider yourself lucky!




Thanks a Ton!

Stacy O'Quinn
888-572-8842