Self esteem and self confidence are not the same thing and
therefore, hold different value. We develop self esteem when others tell us how
wonderful, attractive, and smart we are. Though self esteem is a good thing to
have, it is no substitute for self confidence, which is developed through
self-improvement and overcoming obstacles.
People who are confident in themselves know that they are
talented and smart because they have proven it to themselves. We tend to place
higher value on self confidence because it is something we earned rather than
something another person provided to us. Boosts to self esteem can help to
reinforce self confidence. On the other hand, someone who is self confident is
less likely to internalize external observations that are detrimental to self
esteem.
Both self esteem and self confidence play a role in
business. No one should embark on a business venture without a decent level of
self confidence. If customers complain or other things erode self esteem, the
entrepreneur will have the self confidence to persevere. Entrepreneurs with low
levels of self confidence are much more likely to throw in the towel.
Self confident business owners who endure the tough times
will eventually increase their self esteem when customers once again provide
glowing testimonials. The importance of the level of self confidence should not
be underestimated. It can mean the difference between earning minimum wage and
developing a business that generates a six figure income.
It takes much less to destroy self esteem than it does to
erode self confidence. However, self confidence is typically much more
difficult to rebuild. It can take years for people to develop the self
confidence they had before entering an abusive relationship. Getting self
confidence to an acceptable level before undertaking a business venture
contributes to a successful outcome.
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