Self-made millionaire, lifestyle coach, entrepreneur, and
philanthropist Dani Johnson may seem
like the poster child for commitment. However, there was a time when these
goals seemed unachievable to her. She lost her way several times, letting lack
of self-esteem and misplaced priorities overshadow her commitment to make something
of herself. Fortunately, her determination remained beneath the surface and she
brought it forth to become the powerhouse she is today.
Dani recently posted an article about commitment on her
website. She began by stating that all types of success require commitment.
Whether we want to get out of debt, improve our earnings, enhance our personal
lives, or give back to those in need we must be committed. No commitment, no
success…it’s that simple. Lack of commitment is something we cannot hide
because it shows in everything we say and do.
Many people enter a new venture with a high level of
commitment. As soon as they hit a roadblock, they quit. Others have a desire to
do something impressive but they never take action. Saying you want to do
something is one thing but taking action and sticking with it to the end
requires commitment. Most people can think of at least one area where their
lack of commitment caused them to fall short of achieving their goals.
Dani provides a quick test to determine commitment. She
tells us to ask ourselves whether we complain. The act of complaining reveals
that we are not fully committed. If we are not “all in,” as Dani puts it,
others take notice. People who are not fully committed to achieving career
success jeopardize their income potential because customers and prospects may
not want to do business with them. The last thing a customer wants is to be
left in the cold when times get tough.
People who are not committed to their marriages typically
complain about their spouses. This is the first step in the wrong direction.
Parents who are not committed about being the best they can be typically
complain. Marriage and parenting require commitment and success should be the
only option. Challenging times will arise but spouses and parents must find
ways to deal with these and emerge successful.
Lack of commitment indicates lack of ownership and lack of
ownership never results in success. Complainers continue to complain until they
convince themselves to quit. To break out of this cycle, Dani tells us to stop
complaining and start looking for solutions, which are everywhere. These may
cost time and money but this investment is what makes a solution so valuable.
When we make an investment to learn new skills necessary to implement solutions
that will bring success, we become committed.
By eliminating all the complaining and focusing on solutions
we will realize success in all aspects of our lives. With our eyes on the
prize, there is no time to see the negative. When we commit to something, we
transform ourselves from amateurs to professionals and attract others in the
process. Are YOU ready to go all in?
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